A chastity cage prevents the male from being able to access his genitals and prevents enough stimulation to allow for an orgasm…in most cases. That said, it IS possible to orgasm with a chastity cage on, but not via the usual means.
I’ve had orgasms while wearing my chastity cage from becoming incredibly aroused from rimming my wife, and I’ve come very close to orgasm while wearing a chastity cage simply from her gently caressing the parts of my genitals that were exposed through the cage. But in general, the cage is supposed to prevent erections and orgasms.
Wearing a chastity cage on one level is a game of power and control, and lets the keyholder enjoy absolute control over their partner’s sexual pleasure. It also forces the partner wearing the cage to shift their entire focus on their partner’s pleasure, sacrificing their own gratification. This power dynamic is incredibly erotic.
The other part of wearing a chastity cage is the constant intimacy it brings between the partners using it. My wife and I have been practicing male chastity for several years now and we love it. We don’t do it all the time, just ever so often when we want to spice things up. I’ll put on the cage and will wear it 24/7 for anywhere from several days to several weeks.
When we practice chastity, my wife loves knowing that I’m always horny and ready to please her, even if she’s not in the mood. She also loves how our sex is completely focused on her pleasure and gratification. She can see that I’m visibly aroused simply by the act of pleasing her to the best of my ability, and I can see how intense her orgasms are. After I bring her to orgasm, she usually will tease me a bit by gently caressing my balls and asshole, but without the pressure of feeling like she needs to bring me to orgasm, she’ll simply stop whenever she decides it’s time. This always feels incredibly arousing and erotic, and it’s like a drug being so close to orgasm, but not really being able to cum.
Every day in chastity is more intense and more amazing than the last. We both love having our little secret that nobody else knows about. Even if we don’t have sex every day, she knows she’s holding the key and that I’m always wearing my chastity cage. It’s like a second wedding ring of sorts. I love seeing the glow on her face from being constantly satisfied, and we both enjoy my willingness to allow myself to be denied sexual gratification so that I can always be horny and ready to satisfy my wife. We both find it incredibly hot, erotic, and bonding.
We haven’t practiced male chastity for about the past 6–8 months as we’ve both been extremely busy with work recently. In an effort to spice things up, after not having sex for the past 3 weeks or so, we decided to start up again with the chastity cage. I put it on last night after not having an orgasm for 3–4 weeks, handed her the key, and we enjoyed a passionate evening in bed. She had one of the most intense orgasms I’ve seen her have in quite some time, and while I couldn’t cum due to being locked in my cage, it was an incredible experience for me too. I’m still incredibly horny, but I love the feeling of having the cage wrapped around my genitals and of knowing that I’m always ready to please her.
A chastity cage can be a fun toy for BDSM play, but it can also be a great tool to spice up a “Vanilla” relationship and bring about greater intimacy.
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